Comments on: The Ability To Laugh

By: Stanley

Stanley — Mon, 11 May 2009 03:36:56 +0000

There are many times in life when everyone goes through embarrassing moments, and often times they trail him/her forever. These times may be painful, but with the support of others, the pain can be lessened greatly. Parents who only cheer for their child during success and do not do the same encouragement during failure makes the child feel even worse. Moreover, many children look at their parents as role models, support, and approval. From my past experiences, it is easier to accept failure or mistakes if you know your parents will still be by your side. I, too, did something very embarrassing when I was little, but like you, my parents were still supportive and even told me not to worry because I did my best. In the end, my parents and I started laughing at my mistake. Through laughing, I felt that the pain eased and rather than taking it as an embarrassing moment, it was turned into an amusing moment.

By: Palina

Palina — Mon, 11 May 2009 01:49:13 +0000

Mornier, I like your story a lot! Especially, the part where you describe the exercises during the final event. I felt like it was me doing the routines and laughing afterwards.
It is very important to learn not to pay attention on our mistakes and try to approach them with the laughter because this is the only way we can enjoy our activities.
I like how you teach your daughter to deal with mistakes. Kids and teenagers are very vulnerable and in some situations they can be wounded by their parents’ opinion. Your support helped Kayla to excel in the second competition. She was confident in herself and less nervous because she knew no matter what you wouldn’t be judging her. She knew that you would be laughing together.
I totally agree with you. Unless our mistakes are life threatening, we don’t need to take them too seriously. And the laughter makes our mistakes and disappointments less important.

By: Mary Fung

Mary Fung — Fri, 08 May 2009 14:51:34 +0000

Everyone is bound to face a moment in their life that they find humiliating or embarrassing. What they don’t know is that the only person judging them is themselves. Laughing at your own mistakes makes the situation easier. It shows that you are strong enough to move on as well as accepting the fact that everyone makes mistakes. This story inspires me to accept who I am and to just laugh out my mistakes and work harder next time. Laughter is always the best medicine to a rough day. Even people without PhD’s can tell you that.

By: Marco Figueroa

Marco Figueroa — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:05:29 +0000

We go humans go through so many disapointments in life , that i can not imagine life without laughter. This story made me realize how precious life is and that laughter is good for the soul, it rejuvinates me and makes me feel young. It is also an ancient remedy for mental health. And i apply it to my life . Very nice job. Thank you very much.

By: Janai Davila

Janai Davila — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 12:43:31 +0000

This was great. I am currently sitting on the edge of my seat. That was the most exciting piece about someone’s child. There are too many parents who go on and on about their children, not saying that they shouldn’t, but it gets annoying. This was such a creative way to say “laugh a little” and incorporate your daughters achievements. I felt like I knew Kayla and I’m proud of her as well. As for that lesson you learned from her, it is a great one. That is how my mom stayed so young. One thing though, you should definitely stand up next time she lands a routine… of-course adding the “you did it” point. Wonderful.

By: Rhonda Davis

Rhonda Davis — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 02:56:35 +0000

Laughter is a key component in life. Without it, everything in the world would seem so…well…blah! I couldn’t agree more with you. I really liked this piece. It was cute and down to Earth. It’s cool how you chose to use your daughter as the main thread for this essay as well. Also, not only did you depict yourself as a parent but as a friend as well. I feel as if everyone can relate to Kayla’s experience in their own way (I know I can!)